positivity

One of life's greatest virtues is positivity. Almost every event however negative has a positive side to it. Yes thats true we just need to think about it and decide to concentrate on the positive aspect. Some of the sad things that happen including death, loss of a job, a break up, being sick, getting an accident to name but a few teach us a lesson that could make us better.. Trying to look at the positive side of death is almost impossible especially premature death i.e. death before 90/80 years. Sometimes when you cant see the positive side of something its wise to accept the situation as it is and try find a way forward or a way of living with the truth. So many people live a devastating life by trying to cling to the past and to the things that are no more or have never existed. Wisdom in my opinion is looking at a situation, accepting its current state however hard and finding a strategy to make it better as desired. Thats not to mean we shouldnt cry or feel bad when things go bad but there is got to be a way forward. For those of us who believe in God, we know everything works out for the best for those who believe.
    There is a tommorow in your today's situation. Get the courage to bounce back, smile and survive beyond the fall. The beauty of life is that we have every new day to start afresh. 

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