Basic things that go unsaid

 There are those things nobody is going to tell us but we sure need them to stay put..Here is a list of some:-
  1. We can try so hard, pray so hard and wish even harder but God always has the final word. So do it all but take it easy, it will go the way God wants it to go.
  2.  Time moves so fast, we don't realize it until we look back several years ago. Be patient, try to be. If you've come from 20 years ago, 2 years to come should be a walk over.
  3. People will wish you the best, and do everything they can to help you but the ultimate task is upon you. You sit for exams by yourself, you wake up everyday as yourself, you breath on your own, you go into the labour room by yourself and even when we finally die we are off on our own. Its okay to depend on others for hope, strength and more but do not forget that you got to be strong on your own.
  4. Give a helping hand, give it your all, strive to make others happy but never ever do it expecting the same treatment in return. The truth is sometimes people forget the good you do to them, sometimes they just don't care and other times they are simply created differently with different capabilities. So before you get into a heart attack expecting from others, remind yourself that everything you do to others should be regarded as a sort of charity.
  5. Live like a bird everyday, fly to the highest point you can every chance you get because tommorow is a different day, you don't know if you will make it, you don't know if you will get such a chance again and above all you never know where this chance oughts to take you.
  6. Let go of hurtful feelings faster because however long you hold onto them, they ain't gonna change infact you get more angry and more miserable while the people who might have caused them care less.
  7. Live by your own rules, do the things that make you happy in your own way. The only other rules that you should live by are those written in the bible or the holy books you believe in otherwise any other unwritten rules that people try to impose on you are simply theirs, they can enjoy them on their own.
  8. Love your family, stick by them when they need you because chances are they are the only ones who will be by your side without feeling burdened deep down.
  9. Do not take everything people say to the heart. You see words come and go, never returning back and even if they do they are never permanently erassed. Make life easier and take in the positive things and ignore the negatives.
  10. Forgive as fast as you can, forget even faster for your own peace of mind but don't try to play Jesus. Run as fast as possible from those who give you and your loved ones bad taste. For your own sake, choose your fights and reactions wisely, those who make you happy make them double happier, to those who do the opposite if you cant walk away, give them a clean piece of your mind.
 ~ MY LIFE MY RULES ~

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