Whatever happened to humanity!

We live in such a spoilt era where doing wrong is the fashionable right. I mean people do all sorts of evil things and they are not moved even a single inch. Its the norm, the real thing and as a society we have pardoned such things to the extent that when you stand for the right thing you are weird.

Very beautiful young girls date married men, they are fully aware of the status but hell yes they are fine with it as long as the money keeps coming.

We are afraid of introducing our spouses to 'friends' because apparently these 'friends' will snatch them. others forbid visitors to their homes whenever hubby is around because hubby will see more beautiful ladies and run after them. LOL.

Little kids as young as 4 know everything that goes on in the bedroom when mommy and daddy are in, they make me wonder was I slow, is the world spoilt or what exactly is going wrong?

Friends stopped being real friends. Being genuinely happy for the good in a friend's life is a past tense. You can only get good if am already experiencing good. Jealousy, pretense and false witness is the order of the day.

Boyfriends/husbands and girlfriends/wives correct mistakes on their partners by slapping the hell out of them. The partner has been reduced to a child's level. Couples solve issues by stabbing them out. It is a practical business very evident through the increased numbers of domestic violence and death cases. The very recent being a husband who stabbed the wife and later killed himself leaving three young kids orphaned, apparent reason being the mother took kids to Mombasa for fun without him.

We need sanity back, we seriously do;

To our girls, what goes round comes back around. The same way you are busy dating married men is the very same way someone's daughter will date your husband if you are lucky enough to get one. It is just wrong and there is time to change all that.

Stop 'nyemelearing' into couples, get your own man/woman, there are so many out there. To these 'snatchable' men really?! Try something more challenging and heroic like keeping one girl/man. Men and women alike are grown up with full sense to differentiate between right and wrong. You can't possibly afford to babysit both your kids and spouse watching his/her every move. Do the right thing, period. Get love right, it is not about what meets the eye alone, that is simply the icing on the cake. Get real and deep with each other that way all other 'sexier' girls/boys stand no chance. I mean if you know your worth you don't have to snoop around anyone to keep them.

Parents take care of what your kids are exposed to, it is exactly what it is, parenting. They will thank you later. The number of fallen families and orphaned children is overwhelming. Slapping, stabbing, blows etc. are crimes. Violence has never been and will never be a solution. Talk it out, even kids listen so grown ups have to listen. If it does not work out, WALK IT OUT. Am not advocating for divorce but if you going to die before your written day sister walk or run if possible. Brothers too, before you become the next statistic.

Ni hayo tu kwa sasa. Lets join hands and restore sanity in society.

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