The power of positivity

Amazing how being positive generally attracts a full package of positive outcomes in your life.

It is a reality. From the experiences I have had the many yet very few years I have lived, I know too well that having a positive mind set makes life better and outcomes of life's activities more fulfilling.

Having a positive mind set means complaining less. We can never have a perfect life or perfect people around us neither can we have perfect services being offered by human beings or machines. We are not perfect ourselves. It is therefore good for your soul to practice complaining less regardless of the situations we are faced with. Instead we should all learn to appreciate more. Appreciate the little nice things done or said to you, it gives the giver motivation to keep doing good. The services offered will keep getting better and eventually come close to perfection. On the other hand, when you keep complaining there is that bad taste that always lingers around. You will never get to see the very nice things and intentions because of the bar set by your very own attitude. This new month let us purpose to appreciate more and complain less. Life will surely be better, speaking from experience.

Positivity also means concentrating on the open doors, positive relationships, good outcomes and the lovely moments in life rather than wasting your good moods on undeserving situations and people. Many times we are caught up in situations we wish they would have rather not happened. It is normal, it happens to everyone all around the world. How to go about it? Move on, don't put your mind on it. It has never helped to worry about a thing. The only solution has always been to give it a better shot or let it rest. Stop dwelling on things that give you a bad taste it is not worth it.

Finally, God blesses a cheerful giver, true. You can give by being positive towards someone. It is such a blessing to say a positive comment, give a positive remark, advice or whatever to your friends or family. Actually it is magical. Try it this month, be positive to people around you, speak positivity to your loved ones and even to those who don't care, not forgetting strangers and passers by. Positivity reflects your inner soul and transforms the way you view life totally. It attracts positive souls like you.

Have a blessed and positive month ahead.

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