The man every woman wants

I am not married, we may say I don't have experience but i definitely know the kind of man every woman wants because I am a woman.

Women like feeling special and pampered, it is in us. Those lovely compliments, sincere appreciation and sweet words warm our hearts. Yes we are special for sure hence we deserve to feel equally or more special. When a woman meets that gentleman who makes her feel special than any other person around her, you can be rest assured she will make you feel triple special in return.

A woman is like a kid, however learned or experienced she is, she would not resist a good sense of direction. No woman wants to have man who is not concerned any inch about what goes on in her career field/business. We all admire men who make us better in our careers and ambitions. By making her better I mean knowing what goes on in her business, having two or three compliments about it,  practically assisting with ideas and getting things done if need be. Anything supportive towards a sane woman never goes unappreciated. We don't necessarily want a man from our own career fields, no, we want that guy who doesn't mind listening to how good or bad the day at work was.

A man with an ambition. We live in a world where we are equally educated, men and women alike. We still want to look up to our men, at least by nature, regardless of how learned we are. We look up to men who know what they want, those with a strategy of how to get there and they go for it no matter what. Life may knock them down but they don't give up, no, they keep their heads high and take their positions as men. If that woman loves you, she wouldn't resist that kind of a character.

A good father. I know better about this right from my very own adorable father. He is the best daddy I could ever ask for, I say this because he is a good father, the kind of father a woman would want for her kids. A good father knows beyond having kids there is the taking care of the kids bit of it. A father who knows kids need an education, a roof over their heads, clothes and most of all unconditional love. Most of the times the character of a man is shaped by the character of his father. No lady wants to have lousy sons.

 A sincere and faithful man. A woman may love you to the moon and back a million times until she realizes you were playing with her mind. Depending on how calm or forgiving she is, she may release you like a hot  potato. Assuming you are dating, getting to know each other, best foot forward things, why would she in her right senses go ahead and get married to someone who cheats with every chance they get? It is like walking straight into fire while smiling. I am not a man, I don't really know about this 'nature' thing but I certainly know a sincere and faithful man is a treasure. Ladies want this kinds of men for keeps.

I have to get back and study for my exams otherwise the list would keep going. One last thing though, a woman wants a man they love. That spark has to be there. You can do all the above mentioned plus many more but if she doesn't love you, she just doesn't. It is complicated to try and define love, but am sure a woman who loves you knows that she loves you, trust her instincts. Now I did not mention a man's looks, physic, color, nose size, hair type etc. Why? It's because one woman's Alejandro is another woman's ong'ing'o. That is how it is, beauty depends on the eyes of the beholder. Let us keep love alive. Cheers to all such lovely men.